五月天 Mayday 顽固 MV ðŸ’–

今天, 上 Facebook 时首页就 ‘Pop’ 出来这么一个五月天的宣传短讯, 下面是他们去年 8月份还是 9月份上载的 【 顽固 MV 】,  基于某些思绪的召唤, 我再度 click 进去聆听只他那明亮流淌的声音 💖

 

回忆告诉我的是我心生感动, 未必是因为阿信那用尽力气唱出一片励志响亮的曲目, 确实, 它引起里无数个千万个心底有梦的女孩男孩们甚至是迈入社会已有年数的社会人。

令我感到无非幸运的是, 而是某月某日里, 有人短信信息我说: “看到这就想起你了, 觉得你一定会哭的。”

在某月某日里,

              看见这诺大的世界,

                                       某一处灵魂,

有一面看懂自己的镜子。

么么哒! Byee 💖 :* Muacks~

ThenqThenq 💖💖

Is there really a word ‘LOSE’ out there? Or there’s something you yet to learn?

Recently, I’ve watched this Hong Kong drama called <<法網狙擊>> and one of the actor, 梁志健 (艺名: 森美) left me a really great impression, be it acting skill or the way he represents himself. ♥

The fact is, I noticed that he is very considerate with how the personalities of his character should be (mature acting skill!), I meant, he is not only a very thoughtful actor, he is also a very good-natured person with accountability (You can see)! After some pondering, (I felt like I gotta learn from this good good people, coz ya know haha) I really think that there are some wisdom for me to explore! HAAHAHAA

And one day, I accidentally * (No, I saw 杨敏之 on Instagram then I found him uwao ~TT ♥ Then I realized WA LAST TIME GOT A POPULAR DRAMA HE GAVE UP THE 2nd PROTAGONIST CHANCE? IF NOT I MAY KNOW HIM EARLIER! Ok the drama was called <<使徒行者>> actually HAHA *and because he sick lar aw 😥 then I started to…) found this Youtube video where WISDOM CAME JORRR~~~ HAHAHAHAHAHA

Okay I’m always nagging but who cares, the big big lesson I wanna share here is, shared by my recent idol ♥ – 金字良言啊 TT

And this wakes me up! ABOUT WIN OR LOSE.

To be able to live with what you want – your talents to be seen, heard and shared. You think you very popular ah? … some wisdom to be shared by him!

First of all, know how to be a good-hearted person. Because the word ‘attitude’, it’s very complicated to talk about. If you talk (with your mind) and share some negative thoughts, human nature might feel they don’t have a need to support you.

So, be kind~ be pure~ and be always humble 🙂
Suddenly this reminded me some seniors of mine when I was in librarian training during my secondary school. They took “discipline” strictly and trained each of us to always pay attention to our manner. To be honest, I “kena” few times, but after years, I received their compliment as they really see my obvious improvement, and since then, my talents are seen.

Therefore, being a good person is way much more important than any other things else. *Wink wink* ♥

Perhaps there are something I yet to learn, where shall I direct myself now.

Thank you Sammy! Mua Mua ♥ Love you ♥

P/S: HE SUPER DUPER LOOK ALIKE WITH CHINA RUNNINGMAN’S 邓超 叔叔 PLEASE! ♥

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See see! Right-hand side that one, 森美 HAHAHHAHA.

P/S: Hi 敏之~ 敏之 is the left-hand side one HAHAHAHA ♥♥ I love her acting in here too! GORGEOUS MOU ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

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A very responsible Hong Kong DJ and talk host, and actor, Ok LOL haha ♥

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And here’s my CHINA RUNNINGMAN 邓超 OPPA ♥♥ MUA MUA HAHAHAHA

*OMG just realized 森美 is elder than 邓超 and both of them have 1 son 1 daughter 1 wife same! Okay detective check out BYEEEEEE

By Thenq Thenq ♥♥

Star Trek – Beyond (Open Credit After Effects) done by ThenqThenq xoxo â¤

A short video consists of lots of effects done by me ^^

Name: Star Trek Beyond (Opening Credit)
Song used: Now You See Me 2 OST

Yayy thought of showing it here because I love this video SO PRETTY MUCH!  ❤ So enjoy watching this thank you and memeda 😀

Thank you for watching, yea some imperfections keke btw since it’s my very first time to do this video by using Adobe After Effects, so hope that there would be less judging and more about watching for pleasure purposes alright hehe ❤

We make this world better by appreciating what each others did ^-^

Till we meet next time! ❤

🐰 Thenq Thenq 🐰 Byeeeee! ❤❤

 

 

蔣勳:學校絕對不是訓練一批考試機器的場域

撰文:蔣勳(《聯合文學》社長)

 

經常在報紙上,看到一些受過高等教育的年輕人,做出很傻的事情,或者因為在感情上找不到出口,傷害自己或傷害別人,甚至是自己的親生父母。這些現象會使人懷疑,現代年輕人的價值觀是不是出現了問題?

 

我個人覺得,年輕人本身是無辜的。

 

教育體制的因 形成價值觀的果

 

價值觀的形成是一個過程,我們現在看到那些令人錯愕的行為,是一個「果」,而真正需要探究,則是形成這個「果」的「因」。在長期唯考試導向的教育體制中,我們是允許學生升學科目得滿分,在道德、人格、感情培養的部分,根本可以是零分。因此產生這些現象,錯愕嗎?我一點也不覺得。

 

這個問題不是現在才有,在我那一個年代就開始發生。我們很少思考為什麼要孩子上好的高中、好的大學,其實一點意義也沒有。譬如我從事藝術工作,關心的是創作力、關心人性的美,我在不同的學校教過,從聯考分數最低的學校到聯考分數最高的學校,我都教過。以我所教授的科系而言,我不覺得這些學校之間有太大的差別。

 

如果你實際接觸到學科分數低的學生,就會知道,他們沒有花很多時間準備考試,相反的,他花很多時間在了解人。譬如說看電影或者讀小說,從中就有很多機會碰觸到人性的問題。

 

可是專門會考試的學生呢?往往才是真正的問題所在。1998年發生震驚社會的王水事件,一個女孩子因為和另一個女孩子與同一個男友交往,在慌張之際,就把化學方面的專長用出來,她調出了「王水」,犯下謀殺案。

 

我們可以說,她的專業知識分數非常高,但她在道德跟情感處理上是零分。

 

這些個案非常明顯的就是我們說的「好學生」,他們要進的科系和研究所,都是最難考的,他們從小就埋頭在升學、考試裏,忽略了其他。從很多年前我就很怕這樣的人,我覺得這樣的人一旦犯罪,對於「罪」的本質,完全不了解,因為他根本沒有機會接觸。

 

所以我一直覺得,如果要指責這樣的事情,矛頭應該是指向一個教育的架構,這個架構教育出一批批像這樣非常奇怪的人。

 

而這些已經發生的新聞事件,就是我們受的「惡果」。

 

人文藝術教育需適當師資

 

這幾年來發生的資優生犯罪事件,正好說明了我們的教育應該拿出來做最好的檢查。為什麼在這麼一個教育系統中,連知識分子的自負都消失了?以前作為一個知識分子是「士不可以不弘毅,任重而道遠」,有些事是知識分子不屑做的,為什麼這種士的自負在校園中式微了?我覺得,這是教育本質上的最大問題。

 

當然,這幾年來,有很多人在做亡羊補牢的工作,開始注意到小區活動,開始注意到人文教育、藝術教育,但是我覺得做得不夠。譬如說,大學開始教藝術欣賞,卻沒有適當的師資,最後可能就變成一個形式。

 

我想強調的是,學校絕對不是訓練一批考試機器的場域,這些孩子不能夠這樣被犧牲。有時候,我真的覺得這些豢養考試機器的學校,就像養雞場、養豬場,讓人覺得是一個巨大的悲劇。我們應該給孩子最好的音樂、最好的文學、最好的電影,讓他在裏面自然地薰陶。而這些,是不能考試的。

 

在鏡中面對自己的內心

 

我曾經幫朋友代課,帶大學舞蹈系先修班的孩子,他們大概都是大一的程度。因為要代三個星期的課,我很想認識他們,所以請他們畫自畫像,然後準備兩分鐘的自我介紹。他們不是美術系的學生,當然自畫像畫得不是很好,我的目的也不是要他們畫得好,只是希望他們可以在鏡子裏看看自己。課後,好多學生告訴我,這是他第一次透過鏡子好好地看自己。

 

如果一個人從來沒有好好地在鏡子裏看過自己,他對自己是非常陌生的,而這是多麼危險的一件事。

 

1998年的林口弒親案,一個十九歲的孩子和同伴聯手殺害熟睡中的雙親,後來母親醒來,向他們求饒,他的同伴不敢下手,因為同伴常常去他家,媽媽對他們很好,最後是這個孩子動手。

 

我想,他從來沒有在鏡子裏面對自己吧!他自己的美或醜、他自己的殘酷或溫柔,他都不了解。所以當他做出這樣的事時,可以無動於衷。

 

人真的應該常常在鏡子中面對自己,思考自己的可能性。

 

當我在課堂上,請學生做這個作業的時候,幾乎有一半的學生最後都哭了。我才發現他們內在有一個這麼寂寞的自己,是他們不敢面對的。

 

原本限定兩分鐘的自我介紹,最後我們都停不下來。過程中有人跑上台,拿衛生紙給說到傷心處的同學,我問他:「你覺得你的同學,這時候只需要衛生紙嗎?」他懂了我的意思,就坐在朋友旁邊,聽他把話說完。

 

學生缺乏宣泄內心的管道

 

還有一些學生完全不肯說,上台以後,只看到淚水在眼眶裏打轉,一句話也不說。我當時也沒有強迫他們說。到了第三個禮拜,我私下和這一批學生吃飯,因為我不能讓他們的話不說出來,最後他們說了,我才知道這些不說話的孩子有這麼多的問題。他們的父母聽過這些話嗎?沒有。老師聽過這些話嗎?沒有。在升學體制中,沒有人給他們這樣的管道。

 

學校的輔導室是空設的。你說這些學生,會無端端地跑到輔導室去做心靈的告解嗎?掛一個輔導的牌子有什麼用?要真正去發現他們,用藝術的方法引導他們,把他們內心的東西引出來才有意義。因為這些說不出口的話,積壓到一定的程度,會出事情的,這令我非常擔憂。

 

(本文選自《生活十講》,蔣勳著)

 

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Clear Rejection? Better than Fake Promise. :)

If you want to be kind, always remember rule number 1.

Rule number 1:
If your kindness may come back to haunt you,
You need to start building your principles and set your bottom line to it.
Because you may not realize that you are allowing people to disrespect you,
and at the same time,
You disrespect yourself.
And that’s what makes people become worthless.
But not easy-going person. ^^

Then you might be pondering next:
How if I am guilty of not helping/ not promising/ not dedicating for doing something meaningful to the people that actually need it?
Am I not standing in their shoes?

The only reply to this is: Will that person do the same thing to you if you ask for?

IF IT IS NOT, SAVE YOUR TIME AND MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS.

Always be authentic to every of your single decision. Be happy always! C:

By ThenqThenq. 🐰